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Virginia Neely's avatar

It'll be fine,Lian. And when it's all over, it will make a great story to tell your own grandchildren. I must say, I was astonished your grandmother fell off a cliff and just got a broken leg. Best wishes to her and to you and Adam.

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Lian Cho's avatar

that's true! it'll make for a good story haha. she was real lucky and fell into bamboo bushes so was only a little scraped up except for the leg!!

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Malia Pila's avatar

How stressful!! When I was planning my elopement-turned-micro-wedding I got a lot of similar stories from people who'd done the whole thing before me and it seems like these sort of things happen all the time but the best part is that they also all turn out totally fine ALL the time too! When my own wedding hit a million + 1 speed bumps I felt similarly and was ready to be done and through it. I kept (not really) joking to my husband that I was happy to cancel everything and elope like we originally planned just 2 weeks out of the wedding date. I'm a very anxious person and it was a nightmare t b h. But as soon as it was happening, all the excitement I had from initially even thinking about getting married hit and it felt all worth it. Now when I look back at our photos, I barely remember the issues.

Anyway, all this to say... It should be fine, yes! My best wishes to you and Adam!!

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Lian Cho's avatar

Ah thank you for this!! I guess this is the way of the wedding haha!! I'm so happy to hear yours turned out fine and you barely remember the problems!

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Theresa Arzola's avatar

Lol. I can relate in that wedding planning is HARD.... something always comes up. XD

It makes me really appreciate the professional event planners out there.

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Rachel Beyer's avatar

I am a few months out from my wedding and also thought, "This won't be so bad." Bahaha

Hope the stress isn't too bad leading up to it! Sounds like it's going to be great.

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Inês's avatar

Congratulations!!! It'll be fine, you'll see. It's going to be awesome! :)

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Diana Delosh's avatar

Congratulations!!!! and Good Luck with Everything!!!

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vr2dtoo's avatar

It'll be fine. Everything's gonna be alright, you'll see. No matter how many unexpected happenings pop-up in your way. Congratulations to both of you, by the way. Read you on the other side. ✨🙌

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Margreet de Heer's avatar

People bought tickets...?

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Lian Cho's avatar

Plane tickets!

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Margreet de Heer's avatar

Aaaah, of course! I suddenly had a vision of a wedding that's so grand and entertaining people would have to buy tickets to attend...! 😄

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Kimberly Corle's avatar

Oh honey, it’ll be great! The truth is no matter where you get married or what happens, it’ll be beautiful bc it’s about love. Your love. The roller coaster of changes IS hard but you have strong arms to hold on and manage these crazy winds. You are together, your friends and family will be there to support you AND you have all of us virtually cheering you on ❤️❤️❤️❤️ With all of that goodness your are already ahead of the game. You’ve got this! Virtual hugs coming your way😘

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Alison Morris's avatar

This sounds exhausting and I'm so sorry for the stress it's caused you! Sorry also that your grandmother had that fall, but glad she's (mostly) okay. In all sincerity it's my philosophy that anything unexpected/surprising that happens for or during your wedding ultimately makes it more unique, more personal to you, and more memorable for your guests. Soon the wonderfulness of being able to gather with your friends and family (who all came JUST BECAUSE THEY LOVE YOU - sob!!) will overshadow the misery of having to uproot, move things, and make last-minute changes. What really matters is just being there and getting to spend time with your guests. The rest of it could all go away and it would still be awesome - for you AND for them. Nevertheless... I'm sending you all the very best wishes as you cross the finish line and savor your celebration, and I do hope you have no additional headaches!!

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Alison Morris's avatar

Oh, ALSO keep notes on all your wedding drama, because it could be great fodder for a Pig Town Wedding picture book - just sayin'!

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The Sketchy Anthropologist's avatar

Sending you all the good vibes! I have no doubt it will all come together beautifully in the end 💐

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Lisa Hooker's avatar

Welcome to being a couple!

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mika's avatar

the comics (based on real, stressful events) are soooo cute and funnyyy

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Jen Gubicza's avatar

It will be fine, Lian! You’ll get married, have a great life together and everyone who is coming to support you both will love seeing you no matter what happens. You’ve got this! And congratulations!

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Celeste's avatar

Oh my god, I'm planning a wedding for end of August and had 2 1/2 years for it, you'd think it would be less stressful..nope~ I'm sorry about grandma and hope the rest of it goes smooth!!

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Yao Xiao's avatar

Omg Lian, I hope it all goes well and you have a beautiful wedding! It's tough to plan something like that in such a short amount of time!

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